I am a woman.
I like romance.
I love to surprise my husband.
However, I can easily get stuck in the same ruts, and we have only been together for three years and married for two years. I found this book a few months ago. I have barely touched the tip of the iceberg in flipping through it, but here's a sample:
Give her one Hershey's Kiss.
Give her one thousand Hershey's Kisses.
Remove all the little paper strips (that say "Kisses" on them) from a couple hundred Hershey's Kisses. Fill a little jewelry box with them. Wrap 'em up and present them to her.
Write a clever certificate explaining that the little paper slips are coupons
redeemable for one kiss each.
If your husband complains about not being romantic naturally, get it for him. Take away his excuses! (Just don't tell your husbands I suggested it; I like them and still want to be their friend.)
It was $11.53 at Amazon. It was a great investment in my marriage. I look forward to using the ideas for a long time.