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Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Planning a Wedding...or Building a Marriage?

Wedding season is coming. I have been contemplating what to get for some of these couples. I hated getting a slew of gifts that weren't on my registry, I didn't need, couldn't figure out where to return, etc., so I am sympathetic to that perspective. I also know that they will receive many things to fill their home but not much to help their minds and hearts adjust to being a husband and wife. This is one of the best (if not the very best) books I have read on marriage. It challenged me and changed my thinking in many ways.

What if God created marriage to make you holy more than to make you happy?

I think I will throw this in the gift bag along with a cookie sheet or cake pan. I wonder which will do more good for their future?

2 comments:

melanie said...

it tis kinda weird how our culture is. the marriage comes with lots of work, yet is priceless. the wedding is so tangible and pretty, and then gone. i think if i and josh were going to rewedding we'd do the beach. love you babe, have a great weekend. ((with my babies!!))

Heth said...

I love that quote. Sure makes you think.

I don't know, a batch of warm cookies sure can smooth over a fight... :)

(LOVE that photo)